I was dismayed to see my biceps in the graduation pictures! "Surely," I said to B, "my arms don't really look that BIG, do they?" (BIG is vastly different than strong and shapely!)
He gently reminded me of a conversation we had several weeks ago, wherein he asked the innocuous question: "Have you been lifting heavy weights?"
I have been going to the YMCA about three times a week since January. Two of the early morning classes I enjoy involve strength-training. I've always loved strength-training. Strong muscles feel so good! And I know myself enough to know that I don't have to use heavy weights to accomplish toning; just consistency. I've been noticing the effects of my gym visits, too: I feel stronger, my triceps have tightened back up, my legs feel firmer... but I hadn't noticed these BICEPS.
In retrospect I hear my husband loud and clear. I need to back off a bit. The big arm look is not for me.
2 comments:
Calli, you are the best! I love you! :) Your honesty and vulnerability are great! Yes, they do appear "big" in the picture, but I think it's more the contrast to your slim, sleek profile that makes them look so pronounced. I was tempted to leave a loving comment quoting Prov 31: "She makes her arms strong for the task", but I wasn't sure how you would take it...until you told on yourself first. ;) You still look very beautiful and feminine in the picture, my sweet friend-- even if Scott wouldn't arm wrestle you! :)
I say hurray for "big guns"! I like 'em!
Darcy
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